Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Care, Don’t Coerce

I read a great little quote from Yehuda Berg, someone whose messages I subscribe to.  I felt it was worth passing along.  It speaks to the importance of helping others along with a genuine intention of benevolence.  Sometimes we find ourselves asking others to change because WE need them to change.  This is not the best place to come from if we want to truly help people for their own good, not ours:

“You cannot change another human being. Think how hard it is to change yourself! And even if you could, you would only bring them away from their purpose – changing themselves.

We can, however, provide help on physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual levels. We can attempt to influence others in ways we think would benefit them. We can try to act in a manner and make decisions that would serve as a positive role model.

But we must navigate the razor’s edge between teaching and preaching. Teachings means sharing your wisdom out of love and care, not because you want to convert or convince or coerce.”
All the best,
David Alvas

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